In defense of fatherhood
Everyone says having kids changes your life. That’s true. But it’s not the whole story.
Sean talks with author Derek Thompson about fatherhood, how raising kids can shock you, and why parenting feels not so much “hard” as “nonstop.” They explore the weird psychology of loving something more than yourself, the loss of control over your own time, and the bittersweet realization that every moment with your child is already slipping away. Also: why two kids is not just twice the work, and why you might still want to get on the ride anyway.
Host: Sean Illing (@seanilling)
Guest: Derek Thompson (@DKThomp)
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